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FOOD PROVERBS

Love does not always come in a neat, beautiful package; good-looking fruit could be rotten inside, but with the help of African proverbs, women will reveal the shining essence of the loving soul of a man.

Timeless African Proverbs to Avoid the Wrong Man in Relationships. 

African Proverbial Wisdom depicts the wrong man as a shadow darkening a woman's spirit or as a storm destroying her heart's harvest. Conversely, the right man is described as a tree of life, offering shelter and sweet fruit. Wise choices sow seeds of happiness, while wrong ones plant sorrow. 

Ancient Sayings are invaluable guides for women when choosing a life partner as these age-old words of wisdom emphasize the importance of a discerning eye, a vigilant heart, and a patient spirit in selecting the perfect man for you.

Good looking fruit could be rotten inside. African Proverb Time-Honored Saying 

African Proverbs Guide Women

Timeless Proverbs teach women to look beyond appearances and short-term attractions and to consider a man's character, values, and integrity.  These proverbs highlight the gravity of bad relationship choices and caution against hasty decisions that lead to heartache and tears.

African proverbs give profound insights into recognizing the wrong man in a woman’s life by shedding light on the pitfalls of a mismatched union. Through the wisdom in Wise Expressions, women are empowered to navigate the complex terrain of love and relationships, making choices that honor their well-being, happiness, and future.

Ten Ancient Sayings to choose your man carefully and recognize the wrong man in relationships.

Wise choices sow seeds of happiness, while wrong ones plant sorrow. 

The wrong man is like a shadow that darkens the sunlight of a woman's spirit.

A wise woman carefully selects her man, for in his strength, she finds her refuge.

When the wrong man enters your life, it's like a storm that destroys the harvest of your heart.

To choose the right man is to sow seeds of happiness; to choose the wrong one is to plant weeds of sorrow.

When a woman follows the wrong man, she loses not only herself but her path in life.

The wrong man is a heavy rain; it floods the heart but leaves no lasting growth.

A woman who chooses her man with care builds her house upon a solid rock, not on shifting sands.

Choose your man as you choose your path through the forest, step by step, with a discerning eye.

The right man is a mirror reflecting a woman's worth.

African Proverbs Guide Women to Avoid the Wrong Men in Life

Time-Honored Sayings are invaluable guides for women when selecting life partners, as they caution against hasty decisions leading to heartache. 

Ten African proverbs about wisdom and careful choices, not selecting the wrong man.

You can't hide a baobab tree in a basket.

A good name is better than a good meal.

A tree cannot make a forest.

A patient woman will eat ripe fruit.

A wise woman builds her home; a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.

If you marry a monkey for his wealth, the money goes, and the monkey remains.

The good looks of a crocodile are a danger to the world.

To love someone who does not love you is like shaking a tree to make the dew drops fall.

True love is like a seed; it grows with time.

The eye never forgets what the heart has seen.

You can't hide a baobab tree in a basket

African Philosophy for centuries, has been a source of wisdom, hope, and good common sense. Instead of looking at a man’s height, weight, and how much money he makes, African proverbs teach us to look deep into his soul to see the essence of who he is truly. 

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