The Unremembered are those whose names, stories, and sacrifices have been erased by time, violence, neglect, or incomplete records. They are not gone; they are simply waiting in the echoes of history for someone to listen. This practice is our way of listening.
We will use affirmations to reorient our own consciousness towards remembrance and African proverbs to root this act in ancient, collective wisdom. Choose a category, hold it in your mind, and speak the words aloud or in your heart. power of African proverbs
The Unremembered and Rituals of Remembrance
The Unnamed Victims of Violence
These are the victims of murders yet discovered, cold cases, and acts of brutality where a name was never known or recorded. They are the "Jane and John Does" of the world.
Affirmation: "I affirm that your life had meaning. I bear witness to your struggle and your silence. Your story, though untold, is a part of our human story."
Proverb: "A person is a person because of other people." (Ubuntu - Southern Africa)
Why: This person's humanity was denied in their end. By remembering them, we restore their place in the interconnected web of humanity. We become the "other people" who make them a person once more.
The Fallen of Forgotten Wars & Battles
This encompasses the countless soldiers and civilians, from ancient conflicts to modern, undocumented skirmishes, who perished without a chronicler. They are the dust of countless battlefields.
Affirmation: "I affirm that your sacrifice is not lost to the earth. I remember the fear, the courage, and the cost of conflicts whose names even history has forgotten."
Proverb: "Until the lions have their own historians, tales of the hunt will always glorify the hunter." (Igbo, Nigeria)
Why: History remembers kings and generals (the hunters). We choose to remember the lions—the common people who fought, fell, and were forever changed by forces beyond their control.
The Lost in the Shadows of Trafficking
Those who have vanished into the brutal networks of human trafficking—for labor, for sex, for organs. They are the silenced, the commodified, the ones treated as cargo instead of human beings.
Affirmation: "I affirm your inherent dignity that no chain can break. I remember your stolen freedom and your silenced cry. Your spirit, unbound, calls for justice and I bear witness."
Proverb: "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." (African Proverb)
Why: This speaks to the profound societal failure that allows trafficking to flourish. These individuals were not protected by their "village" (global society). Our remembrance is an act of extending that embrace retroactively and acknowledging the destructive heat of the injustice they endured.
The Dreamers Lost on Perilous Journeys
Migrants, refugees, and asylum seekers who perished on dangerous routes—in deserts, on treacherous seas, in the backs of lorries—in pursuit of safety, freedom, or a better life. Their hope was their compass, but the journey was their end.
Affirmation: "I affirm the weight of your hope and the courage of your steps. I remember you not as a border statistic, but as a pilgrim of possibility. Your journey, though ended, is sacred."
Proverb: "The wind does not break a tree that bends." (African Proverb)
Why: These individuals were the ultimate embodiment of bending—they adapted, fled, and risked everything to survive the gale-force winds of violence, poverty, or climate disaster. We remember their resilience and mourn the fact that even the most flexible tree can sometimes break. We honor their struggle to bend and not break.
The Ancestors Lost in the Middle Passage & Enslavement
Millions of Africans were kidnapped, their names stripped from them, their stories drowned in the Atlantic. They are the foundation upon which modern empires were built, yet they are the most deliberately unremembered. The Middle Passage and African resilience
Affirmation: "I affirm that I feel the echo of your drum in my heartbeat. I remember your journey across the water. Your spirit is the soil from which resilience grows."
Proverb: "The river is never so full that it forgets its source." (Yoruba, Nigeria/Benin)
Why: We are the river. They are the source. No matter how much time has passed or how far we have flowed, we commit to never forgetting the origin of our strength and the price that was paid.
Did you know? In many African cultures, speaking a forgotten person’s name is believed to bring them peace and keep their spirit alive.
The Lost Voices of Colonialism & Cultural Erasure
Those whose languages, traditions, and very ways of life were systematically destroyed. They are the cultures diminished, the healers silenced, the storytellers who had no one left to tell their stories to.
Affirmation: "I affirm that your wisdom was not lost, only scattered like seeds. I listen for your songs on the wind and honor the beauty of what was suppressed."
Proverb: "When an elder dies, a library burns to the ground." (Malinke, West Africa)
Why: This recognizes the catastrophic loss of not just individuals, but entire libraries of knowledge, culture, and memory. To remember them is to acknowledge the blazing libraries we will never know.
The Disappeared & The Political Vanished
Those taken by dictatorships, secret police, and political terror—people erased from records and family albums, as if they never were.
Affirmation: "I affirm that your absence is a presence. I see the shape of your ghost in the lives of those you left behind. You are not a secret; you are a truth waiting to be spoken."
Proverb: "You can outrun the truth, but you cannot outrun its shadow." (Swahili, East Africa)
Why: The forces that disappeared them tried to outrun the truth of their actions. Our remembrance is the persistent, inescapable shadow of that truth, ensuring it is never truly gone.
The Unmourned of Plagues & Pandemics
Victims of historical epidemics, from smallpox to the Spanish flu, who died in such numbers that they were buried in mass graves, their individual lives lost to the statistic.
Affirmation: "I affirm that your fear was real and your life was singular. I remember you not as a number, but as a unique soul caught in a storm of illness. You are more than a statistic."
Proverb: "One cannot host a feast and forget the hungry." (Ghana)
Why: Humanity's feast of life and progress was built, in part, on the backs of those who hungered for breath and were lost to disease. We remember the hungry, the ones who could not stay for the feast.
How to Integrate This Practice Into Your Life
- Create a Remembrance Ritual: Light a candle for a specific category. Speak the affirmation and proverb aloud. Sit in silence for a moment, visualizing this vast, silent community.
- Use Art as an Offering: Write a poem, paint, or create a piece of music dedicated to one of these categories. Art is a language the Unremembered understand.
- Mindful Moments: When you feel a sudden breeze, hear the rain, or see a flock of birds, let it be a trigger. Pause and whisper, "I remember you."
- Educate and Share: Share this concept with others. The act of collective remembrance is exponentially more powerful.
By doing this, we become the historians for the lions, the mourners at the unmarked graves, and the singers of the unsung songs. We rebuild the village of memory, one conscious thought at a time. African spirituality and remembrance
