Stubborn Mule African Proverb
When you receive advice that
you refuse to follow, do not be surprised at the results.
You roll your eyes and say I know…I
know but, in the end, a tree falls on you and you die ~ African Proverb
What is stubbornness
Stubbornness is basically a rooted
resistance to change. Moreover, given that life is all about change,
stubbornness is effective resistance to life itself. A fundamental
resistance drives the person with stubbornness to being forced to do anything
or experience anything against his will. The personality with stubbornness is
over-sensitive to the possibility of having sudden or unwanted change imposed and
sees the threat of it everywhere. Anything new, different, or involving change
is perceived as a direct threat even if the change in question is positive and
in the person’s best interests.
In the case of stubbornness,
the early negative experiences typically consist of domestic instability or
upheaval and the stress of having to suddenly put up with new situations. The
situations causing such stress could be beyond the parents’ control, such as
having to uproot in a time of war. The cumulative effect is a desperate desire
for stability and familiarity, to stay put and have everything nailed into place,
and to fend off anything new or unfamiliar.
Because of this constant fear,
the individual will crave permanence, stability and predictability. Therefore,
the basic coping strategy is to resist change and any possibility of change. The
chief feature of stubbornness will often insist nothing is wrong in the first
place, no matter what evidence there is to the contrary, but once illness has
occurred, it then strives to continue the pattern so that nothing so dangerous
as new improvement is permitted. All people are capable of this kind of behavior.
When it dominates the personality, however, one is said to have a chief feature
of stubbornness.
You roll your eyes and say I know…I know but, in the end, a tree falls on you and you die ~ African Proverb
Popular posts from this blog
Eastern
coasts of Caribbean, United States, and South America, are in danger of being blasted
by hurricanes wind and rain during hurricane season from June through November. But,
why?
The scientific reason why is because of Africa’s
Sahara desert dust storms and the transition of thunderstorms off the west coast
of Africa. The waters in the North Atlantic Ocean are typically at their
warmest while the Sahara is at its hottest from July through October, so the
chances of a hurricane are highest during these months.
Hurricanes
are gigantic weather systems using convection, the movement of hot and cold
air, to create dangerous storms. They are rotating heat engines powered by the
warmth of tropical waters having three main parts, the eye, the eyewall, and
rainbands.
Hurricanes cannot form just anywhere in the world due to the need
for hot and humid air. They normally form close to the equator and move west or
northwest. Hurricane Alley is a stretch of warm water through the Atlantic
Ocea…
Survival of the Fattest
Rich get richer
Survival of the Fattest, obese Europeans starving Africa
Survival of the Fattest is a sculpture of a small starving African man, carrying Lady Justice, a huge obese European woman who is a
symbol of the rich world.
Explore and Understand Africa Through Her Food and Culture
5-12-2016
Survival of the Fattest Meaning
The copper statue Survival of the Fattest by Jens Galschiøt and Lars Calmar was created in 2002. The fat woman is holding a pair of scales as a symbol of justice however; she is
closing her eyes so the justice. Galschiot symbolized the woman as being blind, refusing to see the obvious
injustice.
For the rich people of the world the main issue in life is that of overeating while people in the third world are dying every day from
hunger.
The misery of imbalanced wealth distribution is creating floods of refugees. However the rich only want to preserve their privileges and take measures so harsh against the poor, they betray their morals …
It is easy to talk the talk and give advice African Proverb
African Proverb
It's easy to talk the talk and give advice on love, careers or even recycling on how things should be done. But, the person giving the advice does not act in a way that agrees with the advice they are giving. The proverb implies that a person should back up their talking with action.
It is easy to talk the talk and give advice
Explore and Understand Africa Through Her Food and Culture
1-30-2015
Beware of the naked man who offers you clothes is a proverb used to call out hypocrites; people who are single but give advice on how to have a happy marriage, a person who is
overweight supplying dieting tips,
environmentalists who do not recycle, people on social media who want to show you how to become rich when they are poor, and politicians who send their children to private school while making speeches on the virtues of public school.
Hidden Agenda of Gift-Giving
Definition of giving with an ulterior motive is …
